If we truly want truth and wisdom then we must first be honest with ourselves. Begin honest with yourself merely means admitting to yourself what your motives really are or how you are really feeling.
Don't be afraid to be honest with yourself because in begin honest with yourself it opens you up to begin being honest with others. Honesty also helps you to be able to discern instead of judge.
Today ask yourself where am I not begin truthful with myself what am I hiding from myself and why?